[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/ste-verna-sama-sebe\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/ste-verna-sama-sebe\/","headline":"Ste vern\u00e1 sama sebe?","name":"Ste vern\u00e1 sama sebe?","description":"Ak sa niekto naozaj priam neust\u00e1le obetuje, tak je to pr\u00e1ve \u017eena. \u017dena sa obetuje cel\u00fd svoj \u017eivot. Pre svojich rodi\u010dov, pre svojho partnera, pre svoje deti. Obeta je to, \u010do by malo by\u0165 asi na\u0161\u00edm druh\u00fdm menom. Obetujeme sa aj vtedy, ke\u010f nechceme, po\u010d\u00favame aj vtedy, ke\u010f nechceme a st\u00e1le sa spr\u00e1vame tak, aby […]","datePublished":"2017-12-12","dateModified":"2017-12-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/093836c6bc976bea6a4c3cd39f9136c261430c33201aa865249fef2be34e3fdb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/093836c6bc976bea6a4c3cd39f9136c261430c33201aa865249fef2be34e3fdb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"elksas.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a284913_w16499_t1518435647.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a284913_w16499_t1518435647.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/ste-verna-sama-sebe\/","wordCount":403,"articleBody":"Ak sa niekto naozaj priam neust\u00e1le obetuje, tak je to pr\u00e1ve \u017eena. \u017dena sa obetuje cel\u00fd svoj \u017eivot. Pre svojich rodi\u010dov, pre svojho partnera, pre svoje deti. Obeta je to, \u010do by malo by\u0165 asi na\u0161\u00edm druh\u00fdm menom. Obetujeme sa aj vtedy, ke\u010f nechceme, po\u010d\u00favame aj vtedy, ke\u010f nechceme a st\u00e1le sa spr\u00e1vame tak, aby sme ka\u017ed\u00e9mu vyhoveli. Asi je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee toto sa ned\u00e1 v\u017edy. Raz n\u00e1m proste jednoducho praskn\u00fa nervy a asi ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s vie, \u010do to znamen\u00e1. Proste buchneme ako sopky a povieme veci, ktor\u00e9 tak v\u00f4bec nemysl\u00edme. Asi by bolo jednoduch\u0161ie, keby sme proste hovorili veci narovinu, no nebudeme si klama\u0165, niekedy to b\u00fdva naozaj ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9.\u00a0Nemali by sme sa neust\u00e1le obetova\u0165 pre druh\u00fdch na \u00fakor seba. Neprospieva to ani n\u00e1m, ale ani n\u00e1\u0161mu okoliu, preto\u017ee b\u00fdvame \u010dasto ve\u013emi nerv\u00f3zne a ve\u013emi nepr\u00edjemn\u00e9. Asi je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee pr\u00e1ve toto b\u00fdva ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9. Nevieme nikomu poveda\u0165 nie a v\u0161etko staviame pred n\u00e1s. Pre\u010do by sme to ale mali robi\u0165? Pre\u010do by to malo by\u0165 pre n\u00e1s v\u00fdhodn\u00e9 a pre\u010do by to malo by\u0165 pre n\u00e1s dobr\u00e9? Len preto, aby sme nemali v\u00fd\u010ditky, \u017ee sme postavili seba pred niekoho in\u00e9ho? Asi je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee je to hl\u00fapos\u0165.\u00a0\u017deny najprv t\u00fa\u017eia by\u0165 dobr\u00e9 dc\u00e9ry, potom chc\u00fa by\u0165 dobr\u00e9 man\u017eelky a vynikaj\u00face matky, no znamen\u00e1 to, aby bolo v\u0161etko prednej\u0161ie ako ony samy? Asi ani ve\u013emi nie, no nem\u00e1me pravdu? Rozhodnite sa preto, \u017ee si nebudete v\u0161etko odopiera\u0165 len na \u00fakor rodiny. Niekedy si mo\u017eno va\u0161i bl\u00edzki ani nezasl\u00fa\u017eia, aby ste ich postavili na prv\u00e9 miesto. Je ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 poveda\u0165 nie svojim de\u0165om a svojmu mu\u017eovi, no mus\u00edte to urobi\u0165, aby ste boli lep\u0161ia, aby ste boli spokojnej\u0161ia a \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ia s t\u00fdm, \u010do m\u00e1te. Doprajte si oddych a urobte ob\u010das nie\u010do, \u010do chcete urobi\u0165 vy. Uvid\u00edte, \u017ee to je pre v\u00e1s d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 a \u017ee budete \u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ia a o to predsa naozaj ide, no nie? Bu\u010fte teda svoji a uvid\u00edte, \u017ee to je v\u00fdborn\u00e9.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Ste vern\u00e1 sama sebe?","item":"https:\/\/www.elksas.sk\/ste-verna-sama-sebe\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]